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Recent motions filed in Miami-Dade family court outline a series of allegations regarding the conduct of Andrea D’Alessio Jr., a Miami real estate developer whose personal life has become the subject of heightened scrutiny. According to filings submitted by his ex-wife, Shannon D’Alessio, the issues extend far beyond typical post-divorce disputes and instead describe what she characterizes as a pattern of emotional manipulation and psychological harm affecting her and the couple’s three children.
The allegations are currently unproven, and no criminal charges have been filed in connection with these claims. All parties are entitled to due process.
Overview of the Filings
Shannon D’Alessio has submitted two urgent motions alleging that, following the couple’s 2021 divorce, Andrea engaged in conduct that contributed to emotional distress and strained family relationships. The filings assert that although the divorce judgment established shared parental responsibility, the post-divorce period has been marked by significant conflict involving communication, parental authority, and the emotional well-being of the children.
The court documents describe a shift in family dynamics beginning in 2022, prompting Shannon to seek suspension or modification of time-sharing arrangements.
Allegations Involving the Eldest Son
The filings place substantial focus on the couple’s son, G.L.D., born in 2009. Shannon alleges that the child—previously close to her—has become estranged, adopting language and behavior that she attributes to Andrea’s influence.
According to the court filings:
- Andrea allegedly referred to Shannon with derogatory terms in the child’s presence, including “piece of s***,” “scumbag,” and “loser.”
- After Shannon resumed dating, Andrea allegedly made racially charged statements, including referring to her partner using a racial slur (“n****r”), which the son has reportedly repeated.
- Shannon asserts that her son has refused visitation with her since mid-2021 and now uses vulgar language toward her.
The motions describe these behaviors as consistent with parental alienation, alleging that the child’s reactions stem from bribery, coercion, and emotional pressure.
Allegations Involving the Eldest Daughter
The filings also detail concerns involving the couple’s eldest daughter, A.E.D., born in 2006. Shannon alleges that the child initially chose to live with Andrea based on promises of increased freedom and material benefits. However, the filings state that the daughter later reported verbal mistreatment, including being called “disgusting” and a “scumbag.”
According to Shannon’s submissions:
- Her daughter eventually returned to Shannon’s home due to emotional strain.
- The child has allegedly experienced symptoms resembling PTSD, declining academic performance, and recurring emotional breakdowns.
- Court-ordered therapy was allegedly hindered by Andrea’s lack of cooperation; filings say he failed to respond to therapists or participate in recommended sessions.
Allegations Involving the Youngest Daughter
The couple’s youngest child, T.T.D., born in 2012, is also receiving weekly therapy. According to the filings:
- The child often cries uncontrollably after time with Andrea.
- She allegedly shows signs of heightened anxiety and fear associated with the time-sharing arrangement.
Shannon attributes these behaviors to what she describes as an emotionally unstable or unsafe environment during Andrea’s custodial time.
Professional Observations and Compliance Issues
The motions highlight interactions with professionals involved in the post-divorce process:
- Shannon’s filings state that Andrea allegedly ignored therapist recommendations.
- The parenting coordinator, according to the filings, encountered significant difficulty securing Andrea’s participation.
- One practitioner, Dr. Stacy Jones, reportedly engaged in a single session during which Andrea used the time to criticize Shannon; filings indicate he did not respond to further outreach.
Shannon argues that these actions demonstrate non-compliance with the court’s expectations and undermine the children’s therapeutic progress.
Relief Sought in the Motions
Shannon D’Alessio is requesting:
- Sole parental responsibility, citing concerns about emotional well-being
- Supervised visitation for Andrea with the daughters
- Appointment of a Guardian Ad Litem with mental-health expertise
- Court-ordered therapy for both older children
- Attorney’s fees, which she argues Andrea should cover due to substantial financial disparities and what she describes as “vexatious” litigation conduct
These requests are currently pending judicial review.
Context and Legal Framework
The allegations contained in the filings center on interpersonal dynamics, psychological concerns, and compliance with post-divorce parenting agreements. Family court proceedings of this nature typically involve multiple stages, including evidentiary hearings, psychological evaluations, and input from parenting professionals.
No criminal proceedings arise from these motions, and Andrea D’Alessio maintains the presumption of innocence regarding all allegations of misconduct.